Fate's destined...Life's destined too..

Life's destined....fate's destined...This is what i copy from my boss...
but now..i found that this phrase....is exactly true...

I know myself...My fate...is being destined.....and life too......
Someone said....we have to handle our fate...is it possible?! i don't know...
But sometimes...we have to believe in fate...that's how...it make us be.....

when the fate want you to become rich..you'll be rich in no time....
When the fate want you to die....you'll be die in no time....
You will not know when will it happen to you.....

No one could ever avoid themselve from being played by the fate...thats why....in chinese we always say that..."命运弄人"that's why..i know my fate...i know i life....that's why....i scare....i don't brave enough to do...the thing that they think i have to do...so i rather give up before i start....

I've lost confidence already....in those thingy...lol...that's what i fear of...fear of being hurt...fear of being rejected ~ but anyway ......lol....Fate...control us?!can we handle the fate?! is it possible? i don't know..and don't want to know...

Since i know...the fate...will never bring me the Mrs Right......
I'm waiting , waiting and waiting...I'm just 19 years old...but i don't know why.....
for those i've met...lol...nothing to say


and......maybe the back luck / bad fate will remain...until when ?!! i will not know..but i hope that...please....leave me alone >.>

so...do you believe in fate?!!! you're the one who handle the fate?! or being handled by the fate?

erm i think God has already determined your fate, God gives you a chance, but..if you just adhere to 'fate is destined' or what and don't catch the chance up..then..?
exp:flood, you, drowned, you saw a floating board, you've chose not to get it;you saw a boat, you din't ask for help;you saw a helicopter was flying by, you din't yell for your life..now you are dead, you see the God, you say :'darn!i know my way is destined!why din you save me?d*** you!"blablabla blaming~the God:'i'v sent a boat, a helicopter and prepared a board for you.."